When eager-loading paranoid associations, beware that acts_as_paranoid's default behavior is to load ALL records, deleted or not.
For example,
class User < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :blogs
end
class Blog < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :posts
end
class Post < ActiveRecord::Base
acts_as_paranoid
end
# this will include deleted posts too!
@user.blogs.all(:include => :posts)
To only load associations that are not deleted, specify in your association conditions:
class Blog < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :posts, :conditions => "deleted_at IS NULL"
end